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Safety Tips

Practical advice for staying safe while meeting new people on Link-up.

Last updated: 1 May 2026

Your safety is at the heart of Link-up. We verify every profile and give you tools to block and report bad actors, but the most important line of defence is you. Please take a few minutes to read these guidelines before chatting or meeting in person.

Online safety

Protect your personal information

  • Don't share your full name, home address, ID number, or workplace too early.
  • Use the in-app chat instead of giving out your phone number, WhatsApp, or social media.
  • Be cautious about sharing photos that reveal your location or daily routine.

Watch for red flags

  • Anyone asking for money, banking details, or "investment" opportunities.
  • Profiles that seem too good to be true or only have one or two photos.
  • Pressure to move off Link-up to another platform soon after matching.
  • Inconsistent stories, refusing video calls, or avoiding meeting in public.
  • Requests for explicit photos, especially early in the conversation.

Use Link-up's safety tools

  • Verification badge: prefer chatting with users who have completed identity verification.
  • Block & report: use the report button on any profile that makes you uncomfortable. Our Trust & Safety team reviews every report.
  • Photo controls: manage who can see your photos and choose to hide your profile temporarily at any time.

Meeting in person

Take it slow

  • Have a few conversations before meeting up. A short video call can confirm the person matches their photos.
  • Trust your instincts — if something feels off, it probably is.

Pick a safe location

  • Meet during the day in a busy public place such as a coffee shop, restaurant, or shopping centre.
  • Avoid going to private homes or remote locations on a first date.
  • Arrange your own transport so you can leave whenever you want to.

Tell someone

  • Share your plans with a trusted friend or family member: who you're meeting, where, and when.
  • Use a location-sharing feature on your phone for the duration of the date.
  • Check in with someone afterwards to confirm you're home safely.

Know your limits

  • Drink in moderation and never leave your drink unattended.
  • Don't feel pressured to do anything — emotional, physical, or financial — that you're not comfortable with.

Reporting concerns

If a user breaks our community rules or makes you feel unsafe, please report them through the app or contact us at safety@linkup.co.za. In an emergency, contact the South African Police Service on 10111.

Useful South African helplines

  • South African Police Service (SAPS): 10111
  • Gender-Based Violence Command Centre: 0800 428 428
  • Lifeline South Africa: 0861 322 322
  • Childline South Africa: 116

We are continually improving our safety features. If you have feedback or ideas for how we can do better, please get in touch — we read every message.